Wars inside .....

How do u measure whether a man is successful>?? ...I guess there are no parameters to judge that, but lets assume for the time being that happy men are successful, or is it the other way round??....does success make a man happy?...somehow the domimoes effect does not preceed over these 2 entities....they are like a yoyo-couple, one pulls the other pushes. Well talking about happy men, what could they be really doing? or let me ask do they really do something?....as in that happiness just comes to them>? Ok lets assume my Boss is happy!!, he should be; he has a cruising career, a family to care for and kids to see, wait a minute does this mean he is happy?....ummm...he is from MY perspective, Ah!..now i get it, though he is still engaged in embellishing his pay slip and always asking more my perspective is that he is happy though he has no idea that he is so happy!...Woah...I mean to say he has no idea that he himself is so happy ?? Truly happiness is perspective from others standpoint, grass is always greener on the other side, well if there is some greener patch on my side too how come people see it and not me?..either this greener side is mirage or I'm blind...hehehehe do I sound pessimist>?..ok let me re-structure..If i want to see the green patch on my own backyard I need to see that with my mind and not with the eyes. For the same i need my mind to be positive and hope should float across!!...Well to have that scenario u should be seeing only one thing at a time, twin thoughts would mar the scene!. which in simple words mean inner war should end!...Denotes that i should stick to the decision no matter what. Cowards retreat from the battlefield, thinking that they are about to lose, but never realise that they have already lost the moment this thought crossed the mind. Now take the mind as the battlefiled and decision as ur mission, once taken u cannot even thinkof changing it!....Otherwise just forget the greener patch....Happy people end up attracting happiness....